Breakup might be hard to do, but sometimes it is the right thing to do. Most challenges in relationships are beyond endurance, and often lead to breakup. Some common factors that lead to breakup includes
INFIDELITY AND CHEATING
Infidelity and cheating are the common factors that leads to breakups. In the case of infidelity, a spouse begins to get attracted to a person other than the partner and get involved in an intimate relationship. If the developing intimacy is not noticed by anyone, it may end up in infidelity and may go one for a long time till it is discovered causing devastation to the marriage/s and breakups.
This is one of the major factors which brings about a breakup in a courtship/marriage. Infliction of mental or physical pains on one’s spouse may lead to the end of a relationship or marriage. There is less chance for an abusive relationship to continue for long.
Nagging is a constant fault-finding, complaints, scolding, criticisms, and frequent sarcastic remarks. This is again an attitude of a partner/spouse to keep the other at his/her beck-and-call. There is no concern for the feelings or the respect of the partner. The tendency to nag is more common with women than with men. The inability of the suffering partner to tolerate it further may lead to a breakup.
The single act of Jealousy can cause great havoc in a relationship/marriage. The man or woman may feel that s/he is getting less attention than s/he ought to get which s/he discovers is being filtered out to someone else, even an in-law in a marriage. It can trigger a breakup in a relationship.
ARGUMENTS AND QUARRELS
A marriage or a relationship may break up if either or both partners have frequent fights with each other and fail to understand each other, when each one wants to have his/her own way, never agreeing for a compromise. The arguments go out of control and they shout at each other and abuse each other.
UNAPPEALING ATTITUDE TOWARDS FAMILY AND/OR FRIENDS
Disregard/hatred/rudeness towards one’s family members and/or friends. Spouses or partners in a relationship can be insensitive to the feelings and emotional bond with each other’s friends or family members. They are belittled when in company of other people or the spouse is not allowed to keep in touch with them. Such behavior devastates the person under attack psychologically and s/he finds it difficult to cope up with the situation, asking for a split up of the relationship.
The inability of partners to satisfy one another in bed. Bad sex which includes premature ejaculation could lead to breakup in relationships/marriages. When one is unable to satisfy the partner’s sexual desire, there is a high probability of the partner seeking satisfaction elsewhere.
DIFFERENCES IN VALUES
Breakup occurs in relationship as a result of difference in values; The inability to agree on family, faith, finances, and lot more could lead to a breakup in marriages/relationships. The differences leads to disagreement on constant basis and there is the possibility of not being able to tolerate it for a longer time.
It might be difficult to make the decision but if it is the right thing to do, then DO IT.